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Pavle (Paul) Golubovic
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Being a Baptist for the last 78 years of my life, I have never attended a baptism and christening before
in my life. I was honored to be invited to the ceremony, it was a privilege indeed. My good friends Nebojsa and Vanja immigrated to North Carolina in the late 1980's- to early 1990's after the war had torn their country apart, along with a lot of their friends. They worked into our society , learned our language, finished educating their children, all with a work ethic that exceeds the average American. They were helped to get here, but they have earned their way into our culture and our hearts. They are kind, generous and caring folk who place a high value on family and belief in God. They are excellent craftsmen and they are a genuine boost to our culture.
But they didn't leave their culture behind, they bought homes in your neighborhood and they built churches near you. They are not Greek Eastern Orthodox churches but Serbian Orthodox churches and that is where I attended Pavle's christening. A beautiful sanctuary built from love and respect for the many immigrants who came to this country to be a part of our society.
Having children and raising them in America is both an honor to our country and a bonus to our society. In the 25 years I have known them they have given us everything from IT managers to medical doctors and everything in between, all some of the most dedicated and caring folk you have ever been associated with. Did I mention that they prepare some of the most savory meals you have ever eaten and their sweets are unbelievable. (Lynka makes the best baclava I have ever eaten)
So yesterday was Pavle's day, to be baptized, to be christened and be honored by his family and friends. Due to Covid the ceremony was delayed until he is 3 years old, but the effect is the same. The church and the ceremony was beautiful, you can feel the presence of love and communal sharing of friends and family. Welcome little friend to your Christian heritage, to your wonderful culture of your family, and welcome to the good old USA.
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Absolutely beautiful |
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No chairs, you stand as they did in 400AD when this model was first erected |
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The proceedings begin |
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Safe in Mama's arms next to kym (Milan) |
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Priest reads ceremony as he prepares baptismal water |
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Oh yeah this is what I was looking for, |
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Didn't cry, I think he liked it. |
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What is that man going to do to me now? |
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Fascinated by the incense |
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The entire service was in either Serbian or Bosnian and I didn't understand anything but it was beautiful |
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Pavle with Milan (godfather or kym) with Slavica and sons, with Father, and Mom and Dad |
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Vanja and Nebojsa with Pavle , after the ceremony letting off a little energy |